3 questions to help you break autopilot and find your feet again.
The 1st is for intentions.
The start of every month is loud. It is filled with the pressure of "New Year" energy, fresh resolutions, and the noise of who we think we should be.But by the third week, the noise usually wins. The autopilot takes the wheel, the resolutions drift, and we find ourselves moving through the days without really being in them.We don't need another "start." We need a moment to steady.
Why the 21st?
We chose the 21st because it is the day the Earth pivots. During the solstices and equinoxes, the planet pauses and resets its tilt. It is the universe's own version of a recalibration.Cultural wisdom suggests it takes 21 days to form a habit—or to realize one isn't working. It is the "Deep Middle." It’s far enough from the start to be honest, and far enough from the end to still matter.The 21st is the most natural day of the month to stop, breathe, and go again.
The Ritual
On the 21st of each month, you will receive a single, quiet email. No pressure, no "life hacks," no "hustle" and no sales pitches.Just three questions designed to act as an arm around the shoulder.To notice where you’ve drifted.To put down what isn’t yours to carry.To return to the person you intended to be on the 1st.
21st.me
We don't track you. We don't sell your data. We send just one email on the 21st of every month, that may help you reorientate. Unsubscribe anytime.
Started by Bam & Street from Kisstory because the 1st is too chaotic
See you on the 21st.